How to Win a Girl’s Heart
Winning a girl’s heart is a mighty task but if you’ve set your eyes on a particular lady who has completely taken over your heart, get ready for the wild ride of making her yours!
Mutual love is something we all dream of finding and keeping for as long as possible.
Falling in love is a daunting experience, because a man in love is capable of doing things he normally wouldn’t dream of doing.
But love has a way of playing with our mind and making us see how far we are actually willing to go, once consumed by that insatiable emotion!
You like a girl, but don’t know what to do? Well then, let me help you out. I’m gonna give you ways on how to pursue her and win her heart.
1. Be Confident and Pursue Her
When you like a girl, make an effort and pursue her. Talk to her and be open about yourself, or just anything. Be confident and lead the conversation. We like boys who are confident, but not too confident to the point where you become arrogant. Be honest and sincere, but most of all: be real.
2.Show Your Interest
Show your interest and be honest. Be upfront and straightforward, we don’t like guys who beat around the bush. Show her that you like her and be honest with your feelings. We like guys who are expressive the most.
3.Pay attention to the things she talks about, no matter how insignificant they seem
Girls absolutely love it when you actually remember something they randomly mentioned a few weeks ago, totally not thinking it would stick in your mind.
But there you are, surprising her with those cute earrings she fell in love with a few weeks back when she was in your part of town!
Those are the little things we remember and appreciate.
It’s not the gifts, it’s the attentiveness on your part!
It means you actually listen when she talks and care enough to remember stuff she wouldn’t expect you ever would.
4.Make her feel safe and protected around you
You don’t have to have the body of a Greek god or be in the best shape of your life.
That is not what I’m talking about here. Physical strength is not a prerequisite for her to feel protected.
Making her feel safe around you is so much more than that.
Be her safe harbor. Be the person she goes to when the world gets her down.
Be her words of encouragement when she’s doubting herself and show her the strength she has within when she feels like she can’t go on.
Make her see that you are a constant in a world full of elusive people. When she sees she’s got a real rock in you, her heart is going to be all yours.
You don’t have to be her superhero, you just have to make her see you would do anything for her.
Even when it’s out of your hands, listen to her and comfort her because sometimes, that is all she’s going to need.
5.Show her you can take care of yourself and don’t need her to keep you in check
Some men look for a girlfriend but what they really want is somebody who will make them lunch, do their laundry and clean up after them.
Let me just tell you right now, if that’s what you’re looking for, you’re barking up the wrong tree.
No girl is interested in that. Ever. She’s not your mom and you’re a grown-ass man. Take care of yourself!
Make your own lunch, tidy up after you make a mess and do your own laundry. It’s called being a grown-up.
Any woman who sees that you just want her to take care of you is going to run in the other direction—and rightfully so.
If you want to win her heart, show her you’re an adult human being who takes care of himself with all aspects of your life.
Show her that you are organized, ambitious and don’t take anything for granted.
She will like it when she sees that you are so maintained and mature and only then will she be able to picture herself with you.
6.Give her compliments when she least expects it and make her day
If you notice your girl is having a particularly lousy day, try to brighten it with a compliment or two but only if it’s genuine and comes from the heart.
Maybe she’s not in the best mood or doesn’t seem to want to talk about it but that’s okay.
Just tell her how beautiful you think she looked this morning when she woke up and how lucky you are to have her.
Tell her how proud of her you are and if her issue is work-related, compliment her on her ideas and creativity.
But always speak from the heart. If you’re being dishonest she’s going to be able to tell.
Things she doesn’t feel she’s good at are the things you need to pump her up about. Make her see she’s so much better than she thinks she is.
A kind word from the man she cares about is going to mean the world, guaranteed!
7.Surprise her with cute, romantic gestures
Yes, girls love romance. That’s no secret. You don’t need to rent out a casino and get the world’s most famous violinist to serenade you as you dine on lobster and drink the most expensive wine there is.
Romance is not about money and places, it’s about something personal and intimate you know would mean a lot to her.
Take her to a place you know she used to love going to when she was a kid but hasn’t visited in ages.
Take her on a moonlit walk along the beach, bring her flowers and just lie there, listening to the sound of the waves crashing and gazing at the stars.
It’s those priceless, intimate moments that are the epitome of romance. Things you will remember and cherish forever.
Where it’s just you and her and a private moment that nobody can ever take away from you.
8.Be honest about your feelings and intentions
Women have a sixth sense when it comes to mind games and lying. So do yourself a favor and just be yourself.
Don’t lie, don’t trick her and don’t say things you don’t mean; she’ll know.
If you feel a certain way, tell her. She would love to hear how you feel about her and where this is going.
If you have a problem with something, talk to her about it. She will appreciate your honesty.
That is the way to a girl’s heart. Whatever you may feel and however you may think she’s going to take it, give her the benefit of the doubt.
Women would always choose the truth, no matter how uncomfortable it may be, rather than be lied to.
So don’t even try being dishonest. It’s a complete waste of your time, as well as hers.
If you’re serious about her, practice transparency and never deviate from it.
Be honest and be true to yourself and that is the only way you are ever going to win her heart.
9.Have proper hygiene and make yourself smell good.
We like it when guys are clean and have proper hygiene. If you want to smell your best, it starts with getting clean. Put on deodorant, apply hair gel, or wear a cologne or perfume. Nothing is better than a guy smelling good. Trust me, she’ll love you forever. We like it when a guy smells good.
As corny as it is, we like it when guys serenade us. It feels nice when you sing for us, or play an instrument for us. It makes us feel special. Sing her a song; it doesn’t matter if you have a good voice or not, but sing your heart out. You never know, she’s slowly falling in love with you.
Ask Her Out.
Those are the best and easiest way to win a girls heart. Try them out and thank me later.