Who Is A Friend?
A Friend is that faithful, soul cheering individual you love and who loves you just as much as you love him/her and would do anything for you…..Is that what you think or is that what the world tells you? well, thats the world’s perspective.
My definition of a friend.
A friend is that little cute puppy who is faithful to you as long as you throw bones at him and would be a real beast if you run out of bones…..its quite simple. You’re free to oppose.
Okay, let’s get this straight….I don’t hate friendship and I definitely love to see true friends but this post is dedicated to all the fake, mean friends out there spilling hate around.
The World’s Opinion On Friendship/Friends
Friends Are Helpful. Friends always have your back. If you’re tired, they take your load. They neither tally or begrudge.
Friends Are Honest. Friends are always straightforward when it comes to discussions. They are never cruel, deceitful or manipulative.
Friends Are Loyal. Friends always stick by your side no matter what and their commitment to you is not fickle.
Friends Are Trustworthy. Friends are trustworthy, they keep your confidence and respect your decisions.
Friends Are Supporters. Friends support, promote, advocate and cheer your movement or life.
Friends Are Caring. Friends are caring, they listen to all your problems, appreciate and compliment you.
Friends Are Patient. Friends are never to quick for you. They encourage you gradually and are very understanding. They don’t rush you into quick decisions.
Friends Are Angels. Friends are people who complete one wing of our lives. They are like our guardian angels.
Friends Are Motivators. Friends are the one’s who believe in us. They are our real motivators.
Friends Are Family. Friends are the family you choose. They are the closest to your heart.
Friends Are Secretly Unobliging. Trust me that in every friendship or group of friends, there is always a lazy lamb. How is she helpful? People have friends to do their chores. Simple!!
Friends Are Dishonest. The most dishonest people are friends. Why?
You don’t even get to know when they’re lying. You trust them with all your heart and you’re going down!
Friends Are Disloyal. Friends sure stick by your side but what happens behind you? Do they also stick behind you? You hand them the keys to your heart and they stab you with that very key.
Friends Are Untrustworthy. Having a friend is like a pet snake, it would someday display its carnivorous nature. And it hurts to realize, you can barely find a trustworthy friend.
Friends Are Jealous Supporters. Its either they support you for their personal interest or they leave dumb excuses for not supporting. I’m pissed off.
Friends Are Uncaring. A Friend who wouldn’t cancel a date or party to take care of my needs or visit me when I need her doesn’t Care.
Friends Are Impatient. Let’s talk about patience. Friends are very impatient. Ever being with a friend who wants to go shopping and you need to poo?
You’re gonna poo in ten seconds or you’ll be left behind. What about real life issues requiring patience?
Friends Are Angelic Demons. I would rather call them “angelic demons”. Individuals who hurt you and you don’t even realize they are hurting you? I would call some friends “penny wise!”
Friends Demoralize. Friends motivate each other but sometimes, they motivate you towards the wrong idea or thing. And when you get a glimpse of a nice plan, they demoralize you to stupor.
Friends Are Not Family. The only family you should have is your real family and in the absence of that, get a puppy. Friends would never understand what its like to be family because they are way too selfish.
Do not misunderstand my point of view, don’t get me wrong. I value friendship, I respect true friends but I despise fake/bad friends.
Bad friends create the word “negative peer pressure.”
If you’re a friend to someone out there and you’re reading this, you should know if you got a clean sheet or not. If you have spots on your sheet, you should try to fix things. Be kind to people, they mustn’t be your friends. Just sprinkle alot of love all over the whole place and maybe you could change my perspective about friendship or others out there who might have given up on friendship.
But for now……friendship totally sucks!!!