I’ve never been in a relationship(dating) but one thing I know is that some relationships are like a walk in the park. Jurassic park. Why else would you be clutching your chest and begging for one last chance? Good relationships are almost as extinct as the dinosaurs. I don’t know what you’re thinking but if you aren’t ready for a relationship, don’t tap like on her on Instagram photo, it would keep her motivated to try to be prettier and more sassy. Which by the way means you have to spend more money to please her like she’s a damn goddess of beauty.
Relationship Is Like Cooking, Dont Waste Your Time On Bad Recipes. It’s one thing to master the art of cooking, it’s another to like and understand what you’re cooking. Some men are like egg custard in a bowl. No matter how hard you try to shape them, they would always go astray. If lying was a job, some individuals would be billionaires by now. Yes, Felix, I am talking to you. Ever looked at your ex and wondered, “Was I drunk the entire time?” Nope, you weren’t drunk. You just needed something to pull you out of your infatuation. Like a high five, on the face with a shovel. Be honest, brutally honest, this what’s going to maintain your relationship. Not make up or bitcoin.

A bad relationship will make you feel more alone than when you are single. Stay away from people who think you’re arguing with them anytime you want to express yourself. And if you can’t, you need spiritual help. You ain’t normal at all. But also, a relationship with no arguments is a relationship with a lot of secrets. So you see, it’s a try your luck affair. You may spin the wheel and an understanding man will bless your day or you may eventually end up with Shrek. People get really comfortable in relationships, and they forget they can be replaced in a minute. And there you have it, you’re not too good for him. You’re just an expert in unsuccessful relationships.
The Key to a successful relationship is the key. Did you expect to read something else? I have a terrible/good relationship with people because I don’t force it. You should be with someone who respects you and not someone who takes you for granted. When you constantly try to show your value to someone, you have lost your self worth. It’s $5 by the way. I used to think that the worst thing is to end up alone. But not until I looked into some of my friends relationships. Now I can be single as long as I want. You can call it a dating free life. Some people only claim to love you because you’re available. In real life, you learn more about someone at the end of a relationship, not at the beginning.
Why is a relationship hard to maintain? Our generation simply refuses to love. We’re all sailing on a cruise boat. No one is actually trying to love because it would end in premium tears. You see, relationships without pure intentions would eventually turn out to sink faster than the titanic. Some people can’t just take a hint. Once you notice more than one red flag in your relationship, it’s your cue to run away and take your parents to a surprise vacation. I repeat, your parents, not those money sucking machines sauntering around in heels. The way I see it, if you want to maintain a good relationship, you have to keep the bestie’s out of it. Today’s relationships: you can touch each other but not each other’s phones. Cheat and I cheat back couples. Nonsense.
A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay on it all you want, but it won’t go anywhere.
Before we can have a perfect relationship with anyone, we need to have a perfect personal relationship with ourself. Don’t look for someone to complete you, you’re already whole. Look for someone to compliment you all your life. Every relationship is different. Everyone loves differently. Every relationship is messed up. What makes it perfect is if you still want to be there when things get bad. And this little problem is why I cant be in a relationship too long. One little red flag and I’m on my next flight to my daddy’s house. You can’t stress my existence. I wasn’t born to did for love. But if you can withstand the pressure of a relationship, go for it. Besides, we need stronger women in the society.
Bad things fall apart so good things fall together. So if you’re constantly coming out of a failed relationship, it means you’re too good enough for him. Besides, God is planning a perfect love story for you. Be the type of partner you want your daughter or son to be with. As a guy, if you don’t look Calvin Klein models, don’t expect the girls to look like Victoria secret models. Why do you make promises you cant keep? It’s pointless, reckless and unforgiving. If you can’t marry her, don’t love her. Your partner isn’t a game. You can’t pause them or quit on them. You can’t unplug the system and erase all the memories. Even I felt sad after writing the last part. I don’t know who needs to read this. But Dear boys, it’s one girl at a time, it’s a relationship.
Not a group meeting.
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You’re very correct. Most people don’t take their relationships seriously ,they feel like it’s ok to just walk out of someone’s life and leave them hurt. However, every relationship has their issues and looking from the outside,we can’t really tell what’s really happening but some people really need to read this.
Nice one ,Anna.
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The reason behind most failed relationships is unreasonable expectations and desires-communivation too; it’s like oxygen in every relationship.
About walking out of someone’s life or leaving your partner, I strongly believe the red flags and warning would have been clear enough for certain relationships. But if that’s absent, there is always therapy and self love if heartbroken.
Thank you for the wonderful comment 🤝👏❤
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Nice one👏
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You somewhere said that in real life one learns more about someone at the end of a relationship and not at the beginning… But, there are those relationships that don’t end and I want to believe us who have been hurt a lot in relationships are praying and preparing ourselves to that kind.
We will get to know more about someone in the middle of the journey and when we love everything we are getting and giving we will stick to that journey till death does us apart.
Thanks for sharing. I pray God gives you a kind of love so different from those that fail. May He open your eyes to couples living a love life that people think is fantasy yet it’s real. Everyone deserves better. Enjoy your single life for now and when you get noticed and pinned down, may you continuously glow.
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I believe in exceptions; and your comments clearly defines your faith in that also.
You are right when you say that there is an exception for some relationships👏
To be honest, I like your perspective but sometimes, it isn’t as it always seems. I’m not heartbroken or lonely because I have made a post about bad relationships. I clearly didn’t state that information in my post.
I decided to talk about the constant Problems several young adults and partners encounter in their relationships with some solutions to them.
I believe in love and I will always do. To your prayer, I say Amen. And I pray also that God strengthens your relationship with people you love and care about.
Thank you for visiting Anna’s Styles. A blog that gives you a little bit of everything. Do read our previous posts. Have a great day👏❤
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Amen. Thanks dear
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good advices
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Thank you 👏❤
Glad you found them interesting
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Ah So True Dear Annabel
So Many Folks Are Looking
For Their Soul
Mate
Everywhere
Yet Within True
Poverty is Not Truly
Knowing Feeling Sensing
A Map
Of
Ourself
OUR SOUL
Every Tree
of Life Needs
Roots This Way
This Way it Makes it
Easier to Shed Fall Leaves
Looking Forward to Spring
Always
Now
Green
Within to Give
Share Care So
Freely With Least
Harm for All Indeed
Lighting Up The Lamp Within
And Seeing our Way to Love For All
All Nice Platitudes Indeed Yet True
There is Bio And Neurochemistry to Attend to too…
Of Course There are the Modern Hook-ups of Lust
SKiN Deep And Best For Those Who Have Not Much
Ability to Feel the Love Hormone Oxytocin Like if they
Were Abused Or Neglected When Young By Parents
FRiEnDS And Other Close FRiEnDS And Authorities
of Trust
As Such
One Would
Otherwise Feel
And Sense as Loving
Faith Where Trust In Others Comes
From and the Rest of Reality Truer too…
So Yes Let’s Move to Romance Part of
The Human Reproductive Instinct True too…
In Romantic Love Oxytocin and Dopamine
Sky Rockets Yet Why It’s Called Falling In Love
Is The Anxiety Ridden Lows of Serotonin Also Come
And Jealousy
And Even
Rage
And
Oh No
Almost
Paranoia too..
As Ya Just Want it
to Last Forever at all Costs
Which of Course is Beneficial
To Raise Offspring For Yes Two
Mates to Stay Together This way
So Yes it’s All Part of the Success
That Comes With the Reproductive Instinct
So What is Love The Way i Describe it is By
What My Wife Does for me Like Staying With
A Zombie Through A Life Threat Then of 19 Medical
Disorders Including Type-Two Trigeminal Neuralgia
The Worst Pain Known to Humankind Named The
Suicide Disease that No Drug Would Touch For me
Indeed Literally Assessed As Worse Than REAL Crucifixion
Pain Wake to Sleep Shut-in in my Bedroom For 66 Months
Yes That is What Love Does Love Loves Unconditionally
Or Love Only
Depends
On the Other
to Fill and Feel
US Up Yet That Won’t
Work As Incomplete Always NOT ENOUGH
EMPTY Comes Back if Not FiLLeD And FeeLeD
ALWaYS NoW From Within Yes Like Touching the Face
of God And Making it All Love in the Mirror mY FRiEnD YES
And True Hehe Like Rubbing My Wife’s Shoulder, Back And
Arm As She Is Having Chronic Pain and Not Expecting a Single
“Fringe
Benefit”
In Return Every
Single Day Yet True
Considering She Stood by
My Side for 66 Months in HeLL ON EartH
WHerE A Thousand of Years of Pain and
Numb is One Second Where there is No
Memory of the Feeling of A Smile of Love At All…
Yes Rub Away
i Will Night
Until Day
Love Loves
My FRiEnD When
Real It’s All About the
Give Yet Ya Gotta Be Whole
Enough Naked Complete Enough
To Actually Be Inspired to Give As yes
The Power of Love Does Come From Within
Hmm… THere Must Be A SonG For This By Celine Dion…
Have A Nice Day Really Smart Young Woman Annabel Hehe
If i would Have Fallen in Love Before 18 my Grades Would
Have Surely
Not Been
Close Then
to the Very Top
HAha of the Class
True if Everyone Was
Feeling the Way of Falling
in Love Always Practically
Nothing Would Get Done in the
World So Yes “God Nature” Provides
For That To Go Away Then You (my Wife)
Gets to Clean Up The Bathroom And Adjoining
“Powder Room” Floor When The Husband (me)
Yuck YES Has A Really Bad Stomach Bug too Yes
Love is
the
Real
Nitty
Gritty
Giving
mY FRiEnD
Washing the Underwear
is Probably a Best Metaphor oF All HAha…
Meanwhile my Wife Wants A New 40,000 Dollar
Outback Blue Suburu Just Because of the Color
Blue As the Blue of Our Perfectly Fine Working Order
Honda Civic And What She Describes is too Hard to Clean
Does Not
Fit
Her
Bill of What
She Wants
YES IN THE
COLOR BLUE
Plus She says
i am too Big to
Fit in the Car And
Is Just Looking out
for my Knees as i practically
Crawl Out of it Somedays after
Miles and Miles of Public Dance…
(We Saw A Blue Colored SUV
She Liked Even More A
BMW the Lady Said
She Paid 101,000
Dollars Thank God
My Wife YES NO Doesn’t
Love Blue SUV’s That Much HeHe)
Love is More than A Drug
Love iS A Way
Of
Getting
ALonG mY
FRiEnD CoME
Hell or Heaven SaME
It’s Hard to make it workout
Indeed when the Modern Human
Has a Science Assessed Attention
Span of Less than A Gold Fish Yes
Less than
3 Seconds
The Power of
Love Must Grow
Much Larger than
A Gold Fish Indeed Dear Annabel…
The Power of Love is the Greatest Power to Do…
And Like Nike Says We “Just Do It”, Whether Shoe Sells Come or Not..:)
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Its the power of love that keeps us all going, isn’t it?🥺🥺👏👏
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Amen
Dear
Annabel
Unconditionally
Love
Doesn’t
Die or
Need to
Be Crucified
To Prove
God Is Real❤️🙏⭐️
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There’s always a way to communicate love👏❤🤗
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Yes!🤗🙏❤️
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Great blog and great articles, keep it up! Keep writing!
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Thank you Darrel…will definitely be writing more👏❤
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Danny at har best always ✊🏾✊🏾
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Thank you❤
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We need to understand the concept of dating before jumping into anything but most of us don’t understand that…This post will definitely clear any doubts or confusion on that topic♥️💖 good work.
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I believe the faster you indulge in a relationship, the more you have to lose.
From relationship, there should be peace and love and harmony. But if yours always brings you sorrow, you might want to leave
Thank you Esther❤
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Such a good post. I have had relationships where I have been very controlled and abused. I’m single now and I do look bad like “What was I thinking”!!
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Hello dear,
When I read your comment, I was deeply touched by your confidence and courage to talk about your story to encourage others. If you don’t mind, can we communicate via email? Maybe schedule an interview with you? What do you think?
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Even Shrek was understanding.
The volume was loud enough to make me feel guilty somehow. Who sent you?😂
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The Lord apparently 😌😌😅
He sent me😌😌
You should embrace me with warm shoulders
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😅😅I refuse to understand.
The post is so relatable though.
Great day💙
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I’m tempted to ask if you’re guilty or not😅
But I won’t ask😅
Happy Sunday💛
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Great advise
Never been in a relationship though
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Great article Anna ! I can resonate with so many points you shared and particularly like the comment on great relationship start with ourselves.
Indeed relationships are so fundamental in our human life…Whether it is with families and friends; or business associates and colleagues; or romantic relationships; or even with strangers we come across in our daily lives, every thought we have and every act we perform is connected to relationships.
Good relationships are so important to our happiness ! Thank you very much for sharing your insights 🙏.
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Human relationship is as fundamental as you say. Everyday is a beginning and an opportunity for self growth but that can only be possible when we surround ourselves to the right people and build healthy relationships.
My aim is to highlight important things about life and help those struggling with them to overcome them.
Thank you for reading💙🌹
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Is like am going to try and enter a relationship now
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