Disconnect The Connection

Do not be unevenly yoked with unbelievers….

What connection do you share with an unbeliever? Build relationships with people who believe in your worth, in your potential and your dreams. Do not be yoked with friends who can’t invest in you and your dreams rather move along with people who believe in you and would always motivate you. The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do. Ignore people who think they know more about you than you do, people who constantly try to limit your goals and ambitions for your life. Negative behaviors and harmful habits are the silent killers of a healthy, good life. Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not. A true friend would never discourage you or criticize you for being flawed. So, grab a hammer and break that yoke!

When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends…

As much as people refuse to believe it, the company you keep does have an impact and influence on your choices. The people you surround yourself with can influence you greatly so choose friends with healthy habits. Friends should be medicine for a wounded heart and vitamins for a hopeful soul. Fool me once, shame on me. Fool me twice, and you’ll end up in the hospital. Life is like an elevator, on your way up sometimes, you have to stop and let some people off. Don’t hesitate to let off the wrong friends because if your friends are pumpkins, you will definitely be growing your pumpkin roots as soon as you get attached to them. Cutting people from your life does not mean you hate them, it simply means you respect yourself. No matter how badly people treat you, never drop down to their level, just know you’re better and walk away. I’m making some changes in life. If you don’t hear from me, you’re one of them.

Marriage is a leap of faith, you’re each other’s safety net…

A bad marriage is worse than no marriage at all. I think a bad husband is far worse than no husband at all and a bad wife is the beginning of witchcraft. People tell me there is plenty of fish in the sea, well that is nice and all but I’m human, I don’t date fish. People often wonder why they feel so bad at the end of a marriage even though they might have wanted it to end, the reason behind that is the loss of partnership, loss of a dream and loss of financial stability, to name a few things. 1 universe, 8 planets, 195 countries, 1864 islands, 7 seas, 7 billion people. Don’t let 1 person ruin your life. When you’re unhappy in marriage, your children are the one’s who suffer. Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who would want to live in an institution? Don’t search for a man that will solve all your problems, he won’t. Find one that won’t let you face them alone. Ambitious women really only have two options: a super-supportive partner or no partner at all. A husband and wife may disagree on many things but they must absolutely agree to never ever give up and if they can’t, remember marriage is a leap of faith…you can always leap out! Someday you’ll look back and understand why it all happened the way it did.

Office politics can hurt you but a bad colleague can kill you…

Everybody experiences either an annoying colleague or a bad boss or both if you’re unusually unlucky. A good co-worker would understand team spirit matters and not his ego. Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, what’s in it for me? Everybody brings joy to the office, some when they arrive but some when they leave. Always remember that the toes you step on today might be attached to the ass you have to kiss tomorrow. Be nice to nerds, because you may end up working for one! Find 3 hobbies:
One to make you money. One to keep you in shape. One to keep you creative. Become so financially secure that you forget it’s payday. Avoid office politics and unnecessary competition. Always disconnect from the wrong coworkers. Today they will call you crazy, Tomorrow they will call you boss.

Some pastors are like fire, the sooner they are out, the better….

O Lord, help me to be pure, but not yet, Our pastors may never understand. Just because my path is different doesn’t mean I’m lost. A pastor/priest who can’t keep your confessions to himself is really a hypocrite. Ever being in church and your pastor is preaching directly about you? You need to know perfection is not a skill, It is an attitude. If you’re ever a victim of such circumstances, make flyers and banners and start up your own church and be sure to take half of the congregation with you. You must find the courage to leave the table if respect is no longer being served. One small crack doesn’t mean that you’re broken, it means that you were put to the test and didn’t fall apart. Your wound is probably not your fault, but your healing is your responsibility.

Never steal. The government hates competition…..

The universe contains protons, neutrons, electrons and morons. The morons here are the government. Its a shame we are led by a bunch of trained thieves. The funniest thing is that their pets accompany them on their missions. Last year, a python swallowed millions of naira, I wonder who’s pet was so talented…I believe it’s Tinubu’s pet snake. If you ever get an opportunity to meet a politician, give them a high five on the face for me. Engaging in political activities this days without some extra super powers is like playing with your life. Don’t vote them in anymore, I’m getting tired of reading regrets note everywhere. My brother, you knew he was a thief, don’t console your foolishness with excuses. I really need to have a one on one conversation with Buhari supporters now. How are you faring Madam? I hope you’re about to buy a private jet because if you’re not, you’re really a charged moron. If common sense is so common, why are you with out it? Don’t believe any rumor until the government denies it. From great power comes a great electricity bill. We are all here on earth to help others; what on earth the government are here for I don’t know. Leaders don’t force people to follow, they invite them on a journey.

Good friends, good books, and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life. The purpose of life is a life of purpose. May you live all the days of your life. The great use of life is to spend it for something that will outlast it. It is not length of life, but depth of life. You want to see a perfect relationship? Watch a movie. Single doesn’t always mean lonely, Relationship doesn’t always mean happy. I’m single because God is busy writting the best love story for me. I’m not picky, I just have standards.
The opportunity to truly live doesn’t wait. Either you use it or you lose it. No one is you and that is your power. You can’t control everything. Sometimes you just need to relax & have faith that things will work out. Let go a little & just let life be.

In three words I can sum up everything I’ve learned about life:

It goes on.


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55 thoughts on “Disconnect The Connection

  1. The magic of hip hop is going from solo-to-dolo-doing writing alone but not lonely solve all problems and manifesting answers creating solutions to problems that appears never to be solved!

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      1. Hehe You Are A Very Brave And Open Souled

        Human to Invite me Back For more When

        i only Share A Small Paragraph in

        Respite Dear Annabel

        to Give You A Short

        Vacation Away

        From Tsunami’s

        of Free Verse Poetry

        That Naturally Flow From my
        Fingers Smiles, “i Love My Enemies
        Keeps me Love”, Is Surely Not What

        Everyone is Cut-Out to Do Or Molded

        In Life By Self and Others to Do True

        i’ve Been Attacked Before And

        Choked Attackers into


        i Don’t

        Turn the Other

        Cheek In this Way

        Yet i Forgive And Feel

        Love For the Attacker that

        They Will See A Better Loving

        Day For the Sake of Finding Heaven Now For Real…

        i Do What i See is Correct if i expected Others to Live

        Up to How i Do LoVE iN Life i would Have practically No

        FRiEnDS or Even A Wife if i Separated Them From my ‘Goodie
        Two Shoes’ Now Hehe… HAha i could Surely Tell You Some Horror

        Stories of How Folks Have Treated me Yet You See i am Both the

        Valley And Mountain There is No Where They Will Take Me Usually

        That i Haven’t Already Been True You Learn to Get Comfortable As You

        Will in Hell and Heaven too And You’d Be Amazed How Heaven Will Be

        Even More Challenging Than Hell As there is So Far to Fall From the

        Top of the Mountain Yet it does Help to Already LiVE iN The Valley Same too….

        Anyway i Will only Speak for me Yet in this Culture That Has Become a Bit too Weak

        To Tolerate



        in Traffic Without going

        into Road Rage Forgetting that

        Now is all That Exists And At Best

        We FLoW iN Bliss of Meditation Even

        In Heavy Traffic Hehe Yet again That’s Me

        Been Meditating in Flow of Heaven This Way

        for 93 Months it’s Easier for me to Just Wipe the

        Cr8p off my Shoes When Someone Drops That on

        Me And Dance And Go On And Sing on my Merry Merry

        Already Married the Night and the Day the Same Anyway

        i Don’t have to Work for Money This Makes my View of Life

        Almost Completely Different than Most Folks Who Walk the Streets

        In Day

        or Night

        When i did

        i Surely did not always put

        People First as i was Only

        Human And i did what i had

        to do to continue to Eat and Keep

        my Wife With Her Disability Insured for Health

        in the Golden Handcuffs of Employment No Matter
        How Much That took my Loving Soul Away So yes

        The Longer We LiVE The More Shoes We WalK iN
        And Hehe When We Become Financially Independent

        Without all the Stresses that Take Our Loving Souls Away

        It’s Easier to Forgive And Keep Loving All We Meet And Greet

        In Life Even When They Attack us Physically and We Have to Choke

        Them into Submission Yet True i can’t Say i would Feel the Same Way

        For Sure

        if that


        Out Differently

        For You See usually

        i am also the Strongest

        Most Proficient Martial Artist

        to Dance in Most any Room Where

        Folks Spend Most of their life Just Moving

        One Finger or Two Thumbs Stuck on A Smart Phone Screen now…

        So Much Privilege Indeed Much of it Earned Greatest Gift to

        Give and Share Love Caring Freely Now Forgiving All The Best

        We Can and Will With Least Harm it is those Who Have Fallen Most

        Who Need A Hand Up Dear FRiEnD i Feel Blessed i for one Don’t Leave Anyone Behind….

        Hehe… Usually…



        to Sell me
        Warranty Insurance
        on the Phone for my

        7 Year-Old Honda

        Civic That Still



        As Somedays

        Machines Still do

        Yet Humans No No No

        Human is Art A Work of

        Love or Less in Progress Dear FRiEnD

        There Are No Warranties At Best We Put

        People First And Make this Love A Work of Art WiTh SMiLes

        Sunny Evening to You Dear FRiEnD in Nigeria With Wealthiest Soul Love..:)

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      2. I encourage everyone to read this comment because its far better than my post itself 🙏🏼
        A lot of wisdom in one person..
        Good morning❤🤗


      3. SMiLes Dear Annabel Thank You Now For Reading me

        i Just came From one of my Indian Friend’s Blog Where

        A Dude Has Informed Me Twice That i Write

        too Deep and Long Overwhelming

        Him, Hehe When I wasn’t

        Even Writing to Him

        As i Was Writing to

        The Very Nice Young

        Indian Woman Authoring the

        Blog; Obviously You are Not among

        The Norm As Your Blog Post Is Very

        In-depth Far Beyond What Any Usual

        Word Press Blogger Takes A Deeper Study

        Of Anything more than a few short Paragraphs

        The Longer the Deeper the More i enjoy it while

        Others feel the Need to tell me it’s too long they

        didn’t read it like that is gonna Make Me go shorter

        Nah, All My Life, People Have Been Trying to Hold
        me Back with the Average of the Norm That Ain’t How

        i do Life and Obviously that ain’t How You do Life Either
        my Gosh There’s No telling How Far You Will Go in Life Now

        As Young As You Are i Believe You Are Amazing and i learn

        From You i am Here to Be Your FRiEnD to Support You And i’m Glad

        To See You are Finding Plenty of People Who Do Support You that is

        Surely Good News and a Benefit of Circling the Globe We Will eventually

        Find People Who Will Be Able to Catch Up to Us if We Don’t Give Up and

        Others not

        to be Disheartened
        When Others Want to

        Keep Us At the Same

        Height of Life They Exist

        This Life Is my Gift From

        God The Way

        i Give

        Thanks And

        Praise to God is Appreciating

        This Gift of Life In All the Potentials

        i will Open up Next For This Great Adventure of Life Now!..

        And Haha, i Kid You Not, Some Folks Have Written Entire Blog

        Posts Complaining About the Length and How i Write Poetically

        In Every Comment i Create; Haha, They are all Men, The Women

        rarely Complain; go Figure, hehe i Can’t Imagine a Greater Compliment

        Than Someone Reciprocating Same, Yet You See it Thrills me to See Folks Rise Higher…




        View the World

        The Joy Of Others is No Different than Ours

        And Yes, The Same Will Apply to Pain as Well…

        And That’s Where We Have to Develop A Shield oF LiGHT

        So Compassion continues and We Do Not got Get Drained Away from Love..

        i Have to Stay in A State of Meditative Flow All WaKinG Hours or Feel All the Pain of the World


        Is So
        Very Much…

        Just So Very Much…

        Just So Very Very Much…

        i Feel All the People in Hell on Earth….

        Yet i Don’t As Long As i continue to Meditate

        in Flow With Autotelic Ways of Poetry and Free Dance..:)

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  2. That’s well said Anna… you are very good at playing with words that too so sensibly.. reading your blogs over life make me empowered.. they make me feel better.. they let me know what actually I’m.. and yes your greatest power is that you are you.. is the most fantastic line that touches my hearts.. May God bless you with lots of supportive people’s.. I’m one among them.. go-ahead.. I’m here with you… loads of love from India…yours lovingly @Tanushree….❤️🌈❤️

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      1. SMiles Dear Annabel Sure
        You Will Do Well on
        Your Exams Glad to
        See You Posting


        With SMiles

        Goodness i Just
        Finished Celebrating
        A 7 MiLLion Word
        Subchapter of

        My Longest

        Longest Long

        Form Poem

        “SonG oF mY SoUL”
        RiSinG to 9.4 MiLLioN
        Words in 94 Months
        Yet That’s Not Close to

        All As i Am Celebrating
        Also 15,000 Miles oF Public

        Dancing Too Still


        A Second

        Wind Coming Soon🙌😊☺️

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      2. Wowww🥳🥳🥳🥳
        We got to celebrate this🥳🤗🤗
        I told all my friends about your poem and showed them a few lines😏
        They were so impressed, I’m proud of you🤗❤❤💯

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      3. OM Goodness

        Glad You Only

        Showed Them

        A Few Lines Hehe

        There’s Enough Words

        In There To Drown an

        Entire Country With

        SMiles Hehe Thanks

        Dear Annabel You Are



        Your Years of Born🙌☺️🕺

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  4. Agreesd ..if marriage is a leap of faith why cannot we leap out…never forve yourself to be in a relationship…no relationship is better than being in a forced relationship …and yes healing our wound is our own responsibility…we got to take ownership of all our decisions ..change where required and keep moving on..
    Stay blessed Anna ..keep blogging..keep inspiring..

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  5. Beautiful beautiful article. You touched every topic.
    I really enjoyed reading this. It’s motivational, it’s smart, it’s relatable and packed with inspirational quotes.

    Thanks for sharing.


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