What Steps Did I Take To Make Fewer Comparisons? I Recognized That Everyone Is Flawed And Imperfect: I believe that the major cause of my inferiority complex was my inability to recognize that everyone is flawed and perfection is impossible. I wanted to change a lot of things about my life because I felt that these features and characteristics made me weird. But in reality, they made me unique. Everyone is flawed. I Helped Others. There is nothing better and more satisfying than reaching out and helping people. I believe that what matters at the end of everything is not what you have or your accomplishments, it's about who you have helped and what you have given back to this world.
Why I Applied To Minerva University( The School With The Lowest Acceptance Rate In The World). Do I Think I Would Get In?
What Makes Minerva Different From Other Universities? I believe Minerva is the best university in the world. To begin with, Minerva adopts a global experience. Is Minerva Accredited? Yes. Minerva is accredited by the Western Senior College And University Commission Association Of Schools And Colleges (WASC). How Did I Discover Minerva University? The first time I heard about Minerva was in 11th grade. I had just been accepted to EducationUSA Abuja. A Minervian was a member of the group and she was sharing her story, of how she was accepted to Minerva despite her low SAT score and Waec result. What Inspired Me To Apply To Minerva? Then she said, "You should apply to Minerva, I think it's a school for people like you.." For people like me? I laughed. And I asked her "Me? Minerva? With My Carton Brain?" Minerva is everything I have ever wanted. A chance to liberate me, a place to grow and develop my talents. One thing was clear to me after reading through their website for over 2 hours that night. MINERVA IS INTERESTED IN MY STORY. And that's why I applied to this institution. I submitted my application yesterday. Yes! Congratulations to me. I finished my application early this month but I had to wait for my counselor to upload my documents. Overall, I think Minerva's application process is interesting and unique. It provides an opportunity for you to define yourself and what matters to you. It helps you to critically think about different issues that are absent in most admission processes. The application process allows you to open up yourself to the admissions committee and I believe this is Minerva's greatest strength. Do I Think I Would Get In? I don't know! As I have mentioned a thousand times, Minerva is unique from other schools. The only person you have to compete with for a spot at Minerva is yourself. Once you have exceeded their bar, you will get in with financial aid. What Is My Advise To Those Applying To Minerva? Before you apply to Minerva, ask yourself these questions: Why do I want to attend Minerva? Am I ready to be rigorously challenged? Am I an extrovert(I will make another post regarding this)? Do I love to travel? Good luck to everyone applying to Minerva and other colleges. I know this period can be so stressful and exhausting, but be patient and work hard. God will do it for you!
How To Seek And Build Knowledge From Good Sources
1. Be Curious: Having a curious mind or being curious is the first step in gaining knowledge. A curious mind is filled with insightful questions and actively seeks answers. Take a look at your personality or reflect and see if you are naturally curious about the things around you, your community or anything you happen to come across. The questions you ask determine the kind of answers you receive and they lead you to the path of learning. When a curious mind hits a wall, they seek knowledge and when they find that knowledge, they melt down that wall. Therefore, curiosity is the road to lifelong learning. Ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall find.
It’s My Birthday Today!
It's my birthday today! 365 days have passed since the last time I celebrated my last birthday. It still feels like yesterday and I cannot describe how fast time flies. Within the last 365 days, I have cried, laughed, danced, rejoiced, mourned, and learned crucial life lessons. But most importantly, I have become a better person and I have taken a step towards my life goals. This is an appreciation post for the life I have lived for the past 1 year.
How I Overcame My Inferiority Complex
When I got to high school, my inferiority complex got the best of me. I was in a gifted school. A highly selective school for gifted and talented students in Nigeria. Yet, I sucked at maths. It seemed like I didn't fit in or I wasn't good enough to be there. And again, my mom shaved my hair in 7th grade. To make matters worse, I was bullied and body shamed by my classmates. I didn't feel pretty, smart, or worthy. I felt like I was intellectually, physically, and socially inferior to my friends. Once I had successfully accepted myself, I discovered how lucky I was. I became inspired by my own story. I realized how hard I have worked to be a better person and I decided to dedicate my time to helping other people. I wished to enable them to soar above their constant self-disapproval. And as I publish this post today, I hope that it will help someone out there. There's nothing wrong with you. You need to understand that everyone in this world is inferior in one way or the other. You are beautiful, special, and wonderful. You need to appreciate the things you have. You need to identify your strengths and focus on developing them. Your weaknesses and strengths make you unique. There would be no you without them. Trying to change or presenting a false side of yourself to people will not help you become better. It would crush your mind instead. Finally, I want you to know this. NOBODY IS SUPERIOR. NOBODY IS INFERIOR. BUT NOBODY IS EQUAL EITHER. PEOPLE ARE SIMPLY UNIQUE, AND INCOMPARABLE. YOU ARE YOU. I AM I.
Failure Is Not The End
Failure is not the end It is the beginning Of new adventures and mysteries.
The Case Of Jeffrey Dahmer(Racism, Homophobia, BPD, Comparison To George Stinney And Netflix’s Horrible Decision)
Consider this. Several people have contributed positively to this world. People whose lives changed thousands of others and dedicated their time to helping and improving those around them. Why hasn't a series been dedicated to them? Why has Netflix failed(again and again) to retell the stories of these people? Take for instance Maurice Ralph who developed over 36 vaccines including measles, mumps, hepatitis, and meningitis. Of course, Netflix would not recognize the contribution of this man then and how he changed the world forever. Have they considered the thousands of people who would have died if these vaccines were not developed? No! Instead, they have continued to create and re-create movies about monsters who neither contributed positively to this world nor helped people around them.
Observing Sexism In My Family Chimamanda Adichie Was/Is Right!
All my life, I have been taught to make myself likable to others. To present myself in a perfect way, beautiful and silent like a butterfly. But no one has ever asked if I wanted to be a butterfly. I know that many girls around the world are subjected to this similar experience. Every day, I am constantly reminded to be quiet and invisible. I shouldn't talk so loudly or I would be alone for the rest of my life. I should never say the things in my head because no girl says them and people will think I am weird.
End Of September Reflections
Stop! I have some questions before you keep scrolling! What significant thing did you accomplish this month? Did you do anything to help you grow personally? Did you invest your time in anything? What did you do this month that made you so happy? Did you help anyone or do something to solve the problems around you?
My September Book Reviews
A friend once said "you'll grow up and realize that most wattpad books are cliche, poorly written and boring." At that time, I was totally ready to take off her head. But it turns out that she was right after all. I personally have quit wattpad and I enjoy inspirational and motivational literature now. I also have a published book of poetry now and you can get that on Amazon.
What Left To Tell By Immaculee Taught Me
Her story helped me to reflect. To look around me and appreciate the things that I have. It made me to appreciate everything and everyone around me. To love more and show kindness to people. Everyone has a story to share, and by doing that, you can heal thousands of people, show them that they are not alone in their problems and that they can get through their problems. This book restored my faith, gave me hope and changed my perspective of the world.
What Is Your Purpose?
As you face diverse problems daily Tossed around by your challenges Have you ever thought? What is your purpose in the world?
The Power Of Self Expression
You should speak boldly with intellect. Never hush your voice for someone's comfort. Speak your mind, make people uncomfortable with the truth. Because the day your life begins to end is the day you become silent about the things that matter.
Let Your Mind Speak By Anita Ezema Is Out On Amazon
I am happy to announce that my book of poetry titled "Let Your Mind Speak" has been published on Amazon. I am really grateful for the support and encouragement from everyone.
Self Worth
Be the kind of woman that when your feet hit the floor each morning the devil says, “Oh crap, she’s up!’ If you've been criticizing yourself for year's and it hasn't worked. Try improving yourself and see how that works. In everything you do, be a pineapple, stand tall, wear a crown and be sweet on… Continue reading Self Worth
Interview With Susi Bocks- Editor Of The Short Of It
Dear readers, I am happy to announce that I have once more interviewed an interesting personality. She is an author, poet, blogger and editor. I love her blog so much and I would be leaving a link to it so you can visit and read her amazing posts. Here's how my interview with her went.… Continue reading Interview With Susi Bocks- Editor Of The Short Of It
The Power Of Empathy
The Power Of Empathy. Empathy is seeing with the eyes of another, hearing with the ears of another, and feeling with the heart of another.
Sweet dreams and harsh realities
Have you ever felt your heart racing very quickly and your head spinning so hard from all the ideas and scenarios you paint in your mind that you thought you could just burst from excitement? Well you might be sick and just delirious though so you might need to get yourself checked, but that is… Continue reading Sweet dreams and harsh realities
Questionable Character; A Revelation Of True Colors And Fake Life
I used to hate high school you know. It was a place that most people judged you for being who you are. Literally, you would suck if you didn't try to be cool and popular. We were hormone-filled kids with no life experience, strong emotions, and a tendency to want to be accepted by our peers. Of course, after high school, you will find out that nothing truly matters except what you have achieved as an individual. But unfortunately, some of us have gotten rid of our unique individuality to be someone else.
Dealing With Your Insecurities In A World Of Insecurities
Anna's Styles Everyday I wake up and look at myself in the mirror, I wish I could be a better person; I want to be taller, maybe a little fatter and I definitely want to upgrade my body. Some days, I wish I was smarter and could perform mathematical equations as fast as my friends… Continue reading Dealing With Your Insecurities In A World Of Insecurities
Disconnect The Connection
Do not be unevenly yoked with unbelievers.... What connection do you share with an unbeliever? Build relationships with people who believe in your worth, in your potential and your dreams. Do not be yoked with friends who can't invest in you and your dreams rather move along with people who believe in you and would… Continue reading Disconnect The Connection
Pain, Death And Knowledge
Nothing to run from except death itself. It is a safe hell.
Healthy Risks
Image by Rene Asmussen from Pexels Once upon a time there was a man who managed a post office in the old west. He was looking for new stagecoach drivers to help deliver the packages entrusted to his care. As he worked to choose the new drivers, he had them drive the coach around a… Continue reading Healthy Risks
The Sunshine Blogger Award
And that's it for now, if you read this post to this part, you can tell me how this month has been for you. Anna would be glad to listen. Much love.
Interview With Laleh Chini
I am a mother of two children, Amir and Abnoos, and wife to Hassan Mosleh. I was born in Iran, Shiraz, in 1968, and moved to the USA in 1986. I got married in 1987 and moved to Canada, where I still lives today. I started the “A Voice from Iran” blog as a platform in August, 2017. My daughter and I published “Climbing Over Grit” with Wisehouse Publishing/l’Aleph in 2018 and won the “Canada Book Award.” I am a Member of Authors Without Borders. http://l-aleph.com/laleh-chini/ https://lalehchini.com/
The Nothingness Of Nothing
The nothingness of nothing We come into this world with nothing Our purpose, to make something out of nothing The end, we leave with nothing.
Anna's Styles 